so i had the pleasure of that to which i did finally decide to respond with a simple "yes, it's me". (yeah, i know i totally wimped out, but i was making the best attempt i could to refrain.) i thought there was the possibility he may somehow have something important or worthwhile to say to me & i didn't want to just bite his head off right out of the gate. (see how nice i am!)
the same day he replied: wow i thought it was u. how have you been?
i decided no response was best...right?
his reply yesterday to my non-response: hey sorry for the message i just wanted to know how u were? goodbye
my bitch-mode switch flipped: m****, i'm not trying to be mean but after all these years is there really anything you & I need to talk about? do you need to know i'm ok?
i'm ok. i'm married & have a family.
i'm not sure what you want or expect. it's not like we were friends. you did some really awful things to me but i survived you.
i hope he's happy now.
UPDATE 1/13 - he apologized "for everything i put you threw" because he's all grown up now.