ok, so first i added the captcha thingie because of the spam comments; it helped & i seemed to drop off the radar. however, the past few months i'm back in the limelite again. i don't like limelight. not at all.
i went back & changed things again; so now i review all comments, captcha like it's going out of style, took my listing off search engines, etc. this isn't how i wanted it, but i don't like the spam or the pervs posting stuff. sorry for the inconvenience.