i thought Z had matured over the summer, maybe i was wrong. he did well at the summer play place we sent him to, granted it wasn't all day but still. i thought the new teacher was a good fit, not that i've changed my mind, it's just another piece in the puzzle.
my bff called tues; i told her Z had grown up, how we liked his new teacher & that we hoped this year would be much better than last. she was calling to check in, she had sent a message home for us to have a meeting to re-assess everything after last year's review, but i hadn't received the notice. based on my words she decided to wait a few weeks to set up the meeting.
on weds i missed her call. i also missed B's 2 calls, i didn't have a clue what was up until i got home.
Z had gotten in trouble.
someone had told him to hit another kid.
so he did.
then he asked her if she was ok, she said yes.
then he asked her if she wanted to tell a supervisor, she said no.
then later she did & Z went to the office.
so 3 weeks into the school year & he's used up his one chance.
he was given "school suspension" where he went to a different classroom for the day.